Woman of the Week – Belinda Sherman

Each week, we feature a fantastic new woman we think you should know. Some of these women are clients, some are friends, some are women we’ve only just met. But they all have this in common: they are dynamic, interesting gals who have agreed to share with us their insights and secrets to success.

Belinda Sherman

My Current Job/Company:
Director of Strategy and Execution, Huntington, Wealth Division

My Birthdate:
5-14-1969

My Work:
I direct the sales strategy and execution tactics of Huntington’s wealth division.

My Passion:
My family and my career.

My Family:
Joseph (Supportive Husband), Madelyn (Beautiful Daughter- 4), Alexander (Amazing Son – 4)

My Heroes:
My father.

My Escape:
A great song, a mystery novel … or a family beach vacation.

My Pet Peeve:
Closed mindedness

My Indulgence:
Red wine and pizza.

My Roots:
I grew up in Cincinnati, Ohio with a happy and humble family.

My Future:
Very Bright!

My Love:
Listening to my children giggle or having them run and tackle me when I come home from work.

My Movie:
Always

My Quote on Life:
“Peace…It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.” (Unknown)

My Accessories:
Great shoes.

My Advice to Young Women:
You can do anything you set your mind to regardless of your position in life. Even in times of great trouble, all can change with a choice.

How I Balance it All……………
Not well enough. It is difficult to be an interactive Mom and have a demanding career. I do not ever feel like I am good enough at either. However, I desperately want both, so I will continue to try to figure it out.

Five Success Factors For Working Moms

Columbus, Ohio, my hometown, was recently named Forbes Magazine’s best places to live for working mothers. The criteria included critical things like higher salaries for women, shorter commute times, the number of women owned businesses, among other things. You can read the entire article here.

I feel very fortunate to live in a city that boasts a culture that embraces and supports work-life balance and I, for one, have benefited from Columbus’ attributes.

But, at the end of the day, what matters most is your attitude and the steps you take to make working and parenting work for you. No matter what city you live in, here are five keys to success as a working mom.

1. Figure out a system for meals. This is one of the biggest stress points for
all moms, working or not. Plan ahead, freeze things, order take out once a week – whatever you need to do to remove some of the pressure of feeding your family.

2. Get someone to help you clean the house. Even if it’s only once a
month, try getting some help. If you have someone already, you know what a blessing it is. If you don’t, you are going to be surprised how much stress it can remove.

3. Make time for you. Oh, boy. This one is hard. You’re probably the last one you take care of and you get the leftover energy and focus. First, work out regularly and make it a priority. Then, on top of that, find an hour or two of completely “you” time each week. Read a book, go for a massage, just relax, alone.

4. Don’t let being a mom interfere with being a good employee.
When you’re at work, you need to work. Being a working mom doesn’t give you special privileges at work; you still need to get the job done on time and done well. However, if you make sure to deliver on your work commitments consistently and reliably, when you do find yourself needing to leave early or a little extra time on a project, you’ve built enough credibility that it won’t be an issue to your boss or your colleagues.

5. Find an after school solution for kid pick-up/homework.
Again, this is a really important item and one that will create an enormous amount of stress if not
addressed. After school programs, shared baby sitters and more can help reduce anxiety over after school time.

Being a working mom isn’t easy. Here’s to all of you out there juggling career and family and here’s to cities like Columbus that are making things a little easier for us.

Woman of the Week – Susan Rector

Each week, we feature a fantastic new woman we think you should know. Some of these women are clients, some are friends, some are women we’ve only just met. But they all have this in common: they are dynamic, interesting gals who have agreed to share with us their insights and secrets to success.

Susan Rector

My Current Job/Company:
I am a Partner with regional law firm Ice Miller LLP, based in Indy (successor to Schottenstein Zox and Dunn)

My Birthdate:
February 14th (thank goodness my mother didn’t listen to her aunt who wanted to name me Valentina)

My Work:
I work with smart, creative people to help them protect their intellectual property and grow their businesses. I particularly enjoy working with women business owners and executives.

My Passion:
I am passionate about life and seek out experiences to live life to the fullest and improve the communities of which I am a part.

My Family:
Neil, my husband of 31 years, my biggest cheerleader and personal chef.

My Heroes:
Field researchers who devote their lives to improving the circumstances for wildlife worldwide.

My Escape:
Any vacation — whether three days or three weeks — to get away and experience something very different.

My Pet Peeve:

Narrow-minded people

My Indulgence:
Red wine. Dark chocolate. Great filet. Preferably at one sitting.

My Roots:
Small town. Big hearts. Values to live by.

My Future:
TBD

My Love:
Without a doubt, Neil is the love of my life.

My Movie:
Annie. It reminds me that the sun will come out tomorrow…….

My Quote on Life:
“You get out of it [life], what you put into it.”

My Accessories:
Scarves and Victorian jewelry

My Advice to Young Women:
Find a career that matches your internal job description. Consider working for yourself and building a business where you won’t have bosses, only customers.

How I Balance it All……………
I am reminded of Felicity Huffman’s quote: “I juggle everything and balance nothing.” I do the best I can, but sometimes feel like the circus clown spinning a plate atop many sticks without breaking any. Easier said than done.

Woman of the Week – Lisa Borkowski-Ludwig

Each week, we feature a fantastic new woman we think you should know. Some of these women are clients, some are friends, some are women we’ve only just met. But they all have this in common: they are dynamic, interesting gals who have agreed to share with us their insights and secrets to success.

Lisa Borkowski-Ludwig

My Current Job/Company: Vitreo-Retinal Specialist/ The Retina Group

My Birthday: 12/23/1968

My Work: I practice a specialized type of Ophthalmology which deals with the Retina. I see patients in the office and perform surgery.

My Passion: My family, work and close friends

My Family: Matt (supportive husband of 10 years), Nate (7) and Lauren (6)

My Heroes: Elizabeth Blackwell, Martin Luther King

My Escape: Beach, spa

My Pet Peeve: Negative people, laziness, bad driving

My Indulgence: Lifetime TV, wine

My Roots: I was raised in a loving, middle-class family with 2 brothers. I grew up in a relatively small town.

My Future: Fulfilling work and family life, watching my kids grow.

My Movie: Anything that takes my mind off stressful situations–especially those movies that make you laugh.

My Love: A smile on my kids’and husband’s faces; helping my patients

My Quote on Life: “When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, I used everything you gave me.” (Erma Bombeck) and “Live beyond yourself.”

My Accessory: My wedding band

My Advice to Young Women: Never believe anyone who says or implies you cannot do something. Work hard, but do not put too much pressure on yourself to be perfect.

How I Balance it All: Excellent question–Prioritize, be organized, and ask for help. I am fortunate to have a supportive husband who helps with our kids in many ways and cooks for us!

Woman of the Week – Susan Fisher Palace

Each week, we feature a fantastic new woman we think you should know. Some of these women are clients, some are friends, some are women we’ve only just met. But they all have this in common: they are dynamic, interesting gals who have agreed to share with us their insights and secrets to success.

Susan Fisher Palace

My Current Job/Company: President, Susan Palace Wellness, Certified Health and Weight Loss Coach, Global Director, Take Shape for Life, Corporate Relaxation Speaker

My Birthday: 12-17-1958

My Work: I help people create a state of optimal health and wellbeing in their lives. It starts with getting to a healthy weight and adopting the mindset and practices to create vibrant and radiant health. I take people from surviving (non-sick) to thriving.

My Passion: Making a difference for people in the mind/body/health field. I love learning, growing and experiencing the miracles of transformation.

My Family: I am blessed with a wonderful husband, Andy, a beautiful daughter, Lauren 15 and delightful son Jay, 12. We have an 8 year old Shi Tzu named Roxy.

My Heroes: Anyone who turns a difficult situation into a learning experience or turns a tragedy into a triumph. It takes courage to overcome obstacles.

My Escape: My morning meditation time. 20 minutes wrapped in a blanket on my couch with a cup of hot water and lemon. Snuggling in bed watching movies with my husband and/or children.

My Pet Peeve: Hearing people complain.

My Indulgence: Wine, dark chocolate with almonds and movie theater popcorn with butter.

My Roots: Born in Houston, Texas before it was a BIG city. My dad was a surgeon and mom a teacher. I was the oldest of 4 children born less than 4 years apart. We were taught the value of education and independence from an early age.

My Future: I can’t wait to find out! I am enjoying the journey!!!

My Movie: “Gone with the Wind.” It is a classic and my mom’s favorite book. I could relate to Scarlett O’Hara’s determination when she said, “I will never be hungry again.”

My Love: My husband and children. They nourish me beyond belief. I also cherish my girlfriends, my mom and my sister.

My Quote on Life: “Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.” -John Wooden

My Accessory: Silver earrings

My Advice to Young Women: Everything starts with a decision. Focus on who you are and what you want. Accept that it takes time to master your profession (research shows 10 years). Ask for what you need. Use challenges and setbacks as opportunities to grow and learn. Take responsibility for outcomes in your life. Surround yourself with support — coaches, mentors, colleagues and friends!

How I Balance it All: For me, balance is an “experience” that is dynamic — never static. Focus, structure and support are my keys to making it happen.

I learned by watching a unicyclist that to balance you must keep moving forward. If you stay still, you will fall. If you look down, you will fall. I keep focused on my priorities and the experience I want to have with my family, my clients, my business and my relationships. If I am feeling stressed and overwhelmed, I know I am out of balance and need to refocus on enjoying my work and my family. The choice is mine.

I have learned to say no to things (yes I feel a little guilty for not baking or volunteering more). I had to let go of control as my husband and kids take on more responsibility. (What an interesting haircut!)

If I stay balanced on the inside (nutrition, sleep, activity, structure) I am better able to balance my daily life with dignity and ease. It is always a dynamic process!

Woman of the Week – Christy Walsh

Each week, we feature a fantastic new woman we think you should know. Some of these women are clients, some are friends, some are women we’ve only just met. But they all have this in common: they are dynamic, interesting gals who have agreed to share with us their insights and secrets to success.

Christy Walsh

My Current Job/Company: Wardrobe Stylist at Wardrobe Therapy, LLC

My Birthday: 4.5.86

My Work: I work with clients within their wardrobe showing them how to work and wear what they currently own, based on their shape and silhouette. I help clients develop a shopping list to fill any holes in their wardrobe, then maximize their wardrobe by pairing the old with the new, creating a whole new wardrobe!

My Passion: Helping women create a greater sense of self-confidence by helping them love what they see when they look in the mirror!

My Family: My amazingly supportive husband, Ted.

My Heroes: My parents. They are a true example of what marriage and happiness should be.

My Escape: Date night with my husband. Anywhere with my husband:)

My Pet Peeve: Improper grammar!

My Indulgence: Snickers Bars!!

My Roots: A beautiful, happy, close family…my biggest cheerleaders.

My Future: A growing family, happiness, love.

My Movie: Rocky IV….long story:)

My Love: Walking into a room and watching my husband light up. Bringing happiness to others. My amazing career–dream job!

My Quote on Life: Do what makes you happy; inspire others.

My Accessory: A smile on my face.

My Advice to Young Women: Find what makes you happy, and work HARD at it.

How I Balance it All: Its not easy. I surround myself with my loving family and friends who keep me positive and know how to calm me when I’ve taken on too much to handle alone. My husband is supportive and is my best friend, I can go to him with anything and he keeps me grounded.

Woman of the Week – Quincy Yu

Each week, we feature a fantastic new woman we think you should know. Some of these women are clients, some are friends, some are women we’ve only just met. But they all have this in common: they are dynamic, interesting gals who have agreed to share with us their insights and secrets to success.

Quincy Yu

My Current Job/Company: President/SeaYu Enterprises, the makers of Clean+Green®

My Birthday: I am a Libra

My Work: Delivering natural cleaning products that work, and educating women about keeping a healthy, sustainable home.

My Passion: I have two major passions right now: ensuring that our children are sufficiently educated because this is the foundation for their futures, and educating women on how to create healthier homes.

My Family: My family consists of a husband and six children (five human and one dog) plus an extended family of siblings and their families of 42 people.

My Heroes: My dad, who left China and his profession to start a new life and better life for his family…and who never complained when working 364 out of 365 days a year.

My Escape: Reading

My Pet Peeve: Rude behavior, i.e. people not getting up on the bus to let elderly people or pregnant women sit down, people talking over others, people talking loudly on their cell phones in public, etc.

My Indulgence: An occasional expensive and decadent glass of my favorite red wine.

My Roots: I am a first generation Chinese American.

My Future: My children.

My Movie: Don’t have one.

My Love: My husband, Dennis.

My Quote on Life: Live life with no regrets.

My Accessory: Shoes.

My Advice to Young Women: Don’t be afraid to fail!

How I Balance it All: Understanding my priorities, and prioritizing demands accordingly.

Woman of the Week – Michelle Norris

Each week, we feature a fantastic new woman we think you should know. Some of these women are clients, some are friends, some are women we’ve only just met. But they all have this in common: they are dynamic, interesting gals who have agreed to share with us their insights and secrets to success.

Michelle Norris

My Current Job/Company: Senior Vice President at National Church Residences

My Birthday: Oct 2, 1960

My Work: I currently head National Church Residences’ Acquisitions and Development team. It is a small team of bright, talented and dedicated people who are responsible for the many complicated, innovative and significant housing developments that National Church Residences creates each year.

My Passion: I am passionate about the desire to be as integrated and as consistent a person as possible. To be present in the moment no matter what

My Family: David (husband); Jessica (daughter – 26); Bentley & Winston – the Yorkies; Mikey – the cat

My Heroes: I am so blessed to have so many heroes in my life that to name one or two would be unfair. I have been touched by many people who have cared about me, encouraged me, inspired me, challenged me, and loved me.

My Escape: Back packing in amazing places like Yosemite and Grand Canyon with my husband.

My Pet Peeve: People who are nasty to staff at hotels, airports, restaurants.

My Indulgence: Starbucks in the a.m. and wine in the p.m.

My Roots: Loving, extended family from Lima, Ohio. Rural Cleveland until I was 10. Then to Columbus where I have lived the rest of my life. C-bus is my town as the rest of my family moved to Georgia and Missouri. I just realized that I work at one of the best organizations in town, I go to one of the most amazing churches in town, and I live in one of the best towns in the country! What a combo!

My Future: My future is yet to be determined but I pray that I do something good for someone every day of my life.

My Movie: Most recent is “The Help” – inspiring, insightful, yet funny at all once!

My Love: Finding time to be still and reflect on the many blessings in my life.

My Quote on Life: I am an avid reader and I keep a journal of every book I read and I take notes of many inspirational quotes. Here is one of my favorites: Night – Elie Weisel “There is so much to be done, there is so much that can be done. One person – a Raoul Wallenberg, an Albert Schweitzer, a Martin Luther King Jr – one person of integrity can make a difference, a difference of life and death.”

My Accessory: Unfortunately, my Blackberry!

My Advice to Young Women: Give yourself a break! Recognize and honor your gifts. Try hard to accept the fact that you can’t do it all and that is OK and healthy!

How I Balance it All: I balance it all by realizing that I can’t balance it all! I try hard to pay attention to how much time I am spending on the various facets of my life. As I have gotten older, I have been more willing to do things like escape to quiet places and to journal and pray. These times help me gain perspective on the rest of my very full life.

Woman of the Week – Joyce Edelman

Each week, we feature a fantastic new woman we think you should know. Some of these women are clients, some are friends, some are women we’ve only just met. But they all have this in common: they are dynamic, interesting gals who have agreed to share with us their insights and secrets to success.

Joyce Edelman

My Current Job/Company: I am a Partner with the law firm of Porter, Wright Morris & Arthur, LLP

My Birthday: 4/26/57

My Work: I just celebrated 30 years as a lawyer with Porter Wright! I defend pharmaceutical and medical device companies in complex product liability and mass tort litigation.

My Passion: I am passionate about my family, friends and career. I also have had a life-long passion for women’s issues which has been the focus of my community service.

My Family: Neal (great husband of 21 years); Josh (17 and a high school senior); Ilana (14 and a high school freshman).

My Heroes: My parents and my children are my heroes as they have taught me so many important life lessons. They inspire me to be the best person I can be.

My Escape: For the last 15 years, I have gone to the beach in Cape May, New Jersey with Neal, Josh, Ilana and my parents. I simply love any beach!

My Pet Peeve: Selfishness and bigotry are on the top of my list.

My Indulgence: Chocolate; french fries; cosmopolitans “reality” TV, and fashion….to name a few!

My Roots: I grew up in Wheeling, West Virginia in a loving Jewish home with two hard-working parents and two older talented sisters. I have had the same BFF my entire life as our moms were pregnant at the same time!

My Future: In the immediate future, I will try to prepare myself for my son leaving for college next year {Sigh}! In my long-term future, I want to age gracefully, take more risks and open new doors professionally and personally.

My Movie: I love movies but don’t have a favorite. The movie “Schindler’s List” had a profound effect on my life.

My Love: I love spending time with my kids. They light up my life in unimaginable ways.

My Quote on Life: “You must get involved to have an impact. No one is impressed with the won-lost record of the referee.” (John H. Holcomb)

My Accessory: Chunky necklaces; cuff bracelets; my YWCA “New to You” pink patent leather purse.

My Advice to Young Women: Take risks. Do things you can’t imagine. It’s all about confidence. Advocate for yourself and others. Stay authentic. Have fun.

How I Balance it All: Some days are better than others. On the days that no one is happy with me, I try not to beat myself up. I remind myself that I have a rich and meaningful professional and personal life and I am blessed. I have an amazing and supportive husband who handles a lot of our domestic life, especially when I am buried in work at the office or traveling. I rely on family and friends because it does take a village.

Woman of the Week – Laura Bennett

Each week, we feature a fantastic new woman we think you should know. Some of these women are clients, some are friends, some are women we’ve only just met. But they all have this in common: they are dynamic, interesting gals who have agreed to share with us their insights and secrets to success.

Laura Bennett

My Current Job/Company: CEO and co-founder of Embrace Pet Insurance

My Birthday: March 2, 1966

My Work: I’m the face of Embrace Pet Insurance, the “chief embracer” – and am involved in just about everything to do with Embrace Pet Insurance.

My Passion: I’m passionate about entrepreneurship and building an amazing business…..and creating the quality to go along with that is just incredible. On a personal side, I’m passionate about my family. And I absolutely love traveling off the beaten path. I also love eating food – anything from the fanciest restaurant to a random little cantina in California that serves the best Mexican food I’ve ever had in my entire life.

My Family: Two daughters, Ellie and Erin, 8 and 6; my husband, John, our three cats and nine fish.

My Heroes: I think everyone’s a hero in their own lives. In my life, my mother and my grandmother have inspired me. My grandmother led an incredibly challenging life with moves and divorces and racial bias and had so much backbone and resolve. I still have the watch she bought for herself as her symbol of independence.

My Escape: Reading, long hot baths, long drives by myself. And, I love doing jigsaw puzzles; it’s very meditative.

My Pet Peeves: Fickle or fake people. Oh, and when people don’t use their turn
signal!

My Indulgence: Chocolate, coffee, massages, and eating pie for breakfast!

My Roots: I grew up in England and my dad was in the Royal Navy so we moved every two years. We stayed for a bit in Bath, England. I went to boarding school for high school so I could be in one place. My parents immigrated to Canada when I was 16 and I went to university there. Then I moved to Ireland for four years and then moved to Ohio where I am now. I’m British-Canadian-American.

My Future: Continue to keep growing the business and be as good a parent as I can be. Once the girls are older, traveling more!

My Love(s): My family. And, I love music. That’s how I met my husband; on a street corner in Ontario, trying to get into a concert. I love to laugh. I also love what I do for a living and using my brain to be creative.

My Movie: “The Good, the Bad and The Ugly,” “The Sound of Music,” “Lord of the Rings,” and “Harry Potter.” I like a variety of things, but I’m not a big fan of chick flicks.

My Quote on Life: Just Do It.

My Accessory: My thumb ring.

My Advice to Young Women: Whenever you are starting in your career or your life, it really is only the beginning of the rest of your life. The decisions you make then have impact but you aren’t pigeon holed into your choice forever. Trust you will find your path – if it makes you happy you can be successful. You will work it out yourself. Hang out with excellent people so you can see what is out there. Learn what your version of success is.

How I Balance it All: You can’t! You always have to make priorities. You have to say what you are not going to do. Find help where you can. Share with your partner. You have to let perfection go.